Rev. Geoff McKee’s sermon for the twelfth Sunday after Pentecost – 12 August 2018 – is taken from another reading from Ephesians (4:25 – 5:2). This is about the dangers of anger, why we should avoid it at all costs and what coping strategies we can employ – for the benefit of ourselves and others.
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Ephesians 4:25-5:2 (New International Version)
25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. 5 1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
One day, a woman in a brand new Volvo had been driving around a crowded car park.
She finally found a spot and was just about to reverse into it when a young driver in a sporty BMW whizzed into the spot before her.
As the BMW driver got out of his car and was walking away, the lady in the Volvo called out “I found that place first. What gives you the right to push in and take it?”
The young man laughed and said “Because I’m young and quick,” and kept on walking.
All of sudden he heard the hideous sound of a car being heartily smashed.
He turned around to see the lady in the Volvo repeatedly ramming her car into his.
She caught his eye and said “That’s because I’m old and rich!”
There was a little boy with a bad temper.
His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that, every time he lost his temper, he should hammer a nail in the back fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Then it gradually dwindled down.
He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally, the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all.
He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
He said, “You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say ‘I’m sorry’, the wound is still there.”
Anger is a massive problem in society.
It manifests itself in so many different ways. [Read more…]